I was disowned and castigated for having children. I was married my husband fell mentally ill. I was blamed for it. People are conditioned ,very judgemental and entitled conserning other people being mothers. It is very fashionable to reduce ridicule write off mothers especially black women. And the work of running a household.The state and society demeans us. Especially if we choose to be at home. My birth family betrayed me. Because they saw an avenue to feel superior I think. Fragility was a dispicable character flaw , and the infighting and spite unfamilial. People who think it important to warm the pews in church and flaunt themselves in society do these things. To feed their egos to my mind. I consider this hypocrisy service to Satan. It is evil. I have seen videos about grandmas railing over being visted and pressed into service. I understand that, but its abuse to scream and swear OVER tiny babies. Our nation has engineered a lot of that intentionally , but many who excersise this level of coldness still go out of there way for a portion of pride. Or an easy vent. I left and never saw my relatives again after this became a humilation ritual. And practiced in front of my young children. Betrayal is a norm in America of this sort. A woman who devotes herself to little children exclusively are considered lazy fools. Over the generations I have seen it is an increasingly dispicable condition.I raerly trusted my children to even friends. The need to use other children as a pawn is a growing issue and then out right abuses are a whole nother thing.

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