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What are 3 ways to improve the current child support system?
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  • Howard Antonio
    1-3 Make it actually fair for men.
    Woman snorts a line of cocaine in front of the judge and she’ll get 50/50. Man smokes a little weed and he’s a drug addict that needs rehab and supervised visits. … 
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  • Trent Smith
    Make each party pay 50 percent if one party quit work make them get a job ut should be even steven neither party should be penalized because they more succesful
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  • Qurtis Maxwell
    If you need child support for anything other then the child you don’t need to have custody!
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  • Dorothy Ann Williams
    Give father's more parental rights. My son be catching hell from his daughter's mom. No matter what he pay
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  • Shanika LaSaint-Bell
    1.Make agreements and talk like cordial adults before going to court! Keep them out your business
    2. This should be a discussion during dating phase… 
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    • Celestea Deanes
      Shanika LaSaint-Bell C'MON PLZ ...negros should support their children .Make em pay. Thats why we pay taxes
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      • Shanika LaSaint-Bell
        Celestea Deanes I never said don’t make em pay … but going to court don’t MAKE them pay either 😂… you know that right ?! I said a discussion should take place like adults … you should know who is going to take care of their child before laying down and making a baby ! You can’t MAKE nobody do nothing they don’t want to do.. it’s plenty of dads with jobs under the table or simply not working to keep from paying… that money ain’t coming from him 😂 it’s coming from ppl like myself that get up and work every damn day!
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      • Celestea Deanes
        Shanika LaSaint-Bell court sets up child support and payment thru that amount in billions of dollars. The child is more important that some gradiose pronoucements .For you to claim no payments no support is achieved thru such a system at ALL ...is ludicrious. And... if all the men u know evade the system do not work at all..yeah you might as well keep working. .and railing. you do know that trillions of dollars go missing from the gvmt , no black man is party to that level of swindle ..300 mil per day is spent in Afganistan right? Maybe u should go to school too. you getting played more than one way. Going to court is better than nothing at all. good luck w/ that plan .
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      • Shanika LaSaint-Bell
        Celestea Deanes 😂 how am I getting played?? You think I haven’t gone to school? 😂… why are you so triggered?? And when did I say no payments no support … I don’t know not one man personally who evades his responsibilities but I have heard of men quitting their jobs to avoid paying … now if my comment hit home for you then say that … the child will always be important women need to take that into account before having sex with any joe! adults should be able to split amicably and the mother not have to go to the court to assist … example…
        I work with a man that has never been on child support for this two daughters because he has an agreement with the mother and together they opened up an account for her for college … she has since graduated from UCLA 2021 and now has that money to do as she please .. he paid all the way until she graduated !! Those are the type of ppl I associate with … I don’t associate or entertain the foolery drama … sorry if you thought different 🤷🏽‍♀️ …
        And for the record I have no children… and that’s my choice… I will not be a “baby momma” .
        My husband and I make great money and have already started saving for when WE CHOOSE to have a child. The courts will never get involved … that’s me! I said what I said. I will never do that to the father of my child because I know what he is capable of. We in it till the end… morals and values go along way!
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      • Celestea Deanes
        Shanika LaSaint-Bell whew. what a mess.you tax dollar largely has been coopted by NOBODY that looks like you. Triggerring you doing plenty of that. you have no power as a political/economic entity. And you have no moral superiorty conforming to select childlessness or supposing yourself superior to imaginary errant fathers. The system is on your neck like everybody else on this thread. Its piss in a bucket. The work you do is labor for Phareoh , if it were intended for the greatest good living wages and opportunites would be abundant . But its not! The greatest thefts in this system are utterly controlled by people that DO NOT LOOK LIKE or LIVE LIKE YOU. Guess what? That hairtrigger temperment of yours that tendency to irrational irrtability...that shallow small mindedness is PLANNED. That coast you live on full of posion . Its irradiated.The state chose to do that, its a genocide bid. Cali should have been evac'd years ago, the olympics were for fools...and it was PLANNED. No matter how you slave for massa , he still chose to posion you. And take the lions share of loot on your tax dollar. And yeah he makes you do what you dont want to do every single day. Thats the law.He call u to court, IRS military service yeah you better come running. Yet you are fixtated on ...thats by design too.

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